Home Schooling and Sirine Jahangir
Blind parents tell us how they are coping with educating their children at home - and Sirine Jahangir joins us after her stellar performance on Britain's Got Talent.
All parents are feeling the strain of educating their children at home. But for blind parents of sighted children, the dizzying array of apps and worksheets with varying degrees of accessibility can be a struggle. Father-of-two Nick Adamson is navigating the landscape well, and he's joined by Hetal Bapodra, who, with no sighted adult in the house, is finding things difficult. Sean Randall of Blind Parents UK is on hand to give his view of what it's reasonable to expect in the way of help.
We had a big response to our item on the consequences of social distancing for blind and VI people, so we hear listeners' takes on our new world of less direct contact.
And four years ago the family of Sirine Jahangir was struggling to get her into a mainstream secondary school, so we chatted to her father. Now dad and daughter return under happier circumstances. She's just won rave reviews after a stellar solo performance on Britain's Got Talent. We talk about nerves, being on stage and hopes for the future.
Presenter Peter White.
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IN TOUCH 鈥� Home Schooling and Sirine Jahangir听
TX:听 26.05.20听 2040-2100
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PRESENTER:听 听听听听听听听 PETER WHITE
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PRODUCER:听 听听听听听听听听听 KEV CORE听
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Good Evening.听 Tonight, the pluses and minuses for visually impaired parents home-schooling during lockdown.听 And, a star is born:
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We鈥檒l be talking to 14-year-old Sirine, who鈥檚 just wowed TV viewers with this performance.听
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But first, with the debate about who should go back to school and when, still in full swing, we asked, on last week鈥檚 In Touch, how visually impaired parents were coping with home-schooling.听 Amongst those who responded was Nick Adamson from Caerphilly, who has two sighted children, aged 10 and 12.听 He began by telling me about how he teaches the youngster 鈥� his son Euan.Adamson
It is a bit apptastic.听 We鈥檝e got about five different apps between the two children.听 The school are setting work, they鈥檙e setting weekly maths, weekly English and sort of two weekly projects.听 And he鈥檚 keeping going.听 We鈥檙e keeping going about, oh I don鈥檛 know, two hours a day maybe.听 And that鈥檚 working out well for him, given the weirdness of the situation and he is doing really well.听 My daughter, so, obviously secondary school it鈥檚 more 鈥� if you were in school you鈥檇 be moving from subject to subject, so, each of the subjects has a Google classroom and the teachers set work and she hands it in and they send marks back and they set tasks and quizzes and videos and slide packs and stuff like that to watch.听 And that鈥檚 working really well for us.
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WhiteYou do have a sighted partner; I mean how much of this are you able to do yourself?
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AdamsonYeah, I would say I鈥檓 able to do, you know, 95-98% of it, there鈥檚 very little that I can鈥檛 do.听听 With Euan, my son, he needs a little bit more guidance because he is only 10; my daughter, very much, just kind of gets on with it.听 We鈥檙e looking at her work, we鈥檙e checking it over before she hands it in and stuff like that and that鈥檚 all just your bog-standard office tools and all that sort of stuff and all that is working really well with the screen reader for me.听 Like I said, between the two children, we鈥檝e got a see-saw which is like a communications app, that the teachers use to send us comments.听 We鈥檝e got class charts, which is a way of getting marks back.听 We鈥檝e got Google classroom, we鈥檝e got Microsoft teams, Goggle drive 鈥� yeah, it鈥檚 very much 鈥� you know, I鈥檓 quite fortunate that I鈥檓 quite a technical person but I would imagine if you weren鈥檛 it could be a bit daunting.
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WhiteNow Hetal Bapodra is in a different position.听 Hetal, your situation is more complicated, isn鈥檛 it, just explain.
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My husband and I are both blind.听 We have a seven-year-old, a three-year-old and a baby.听 The seven-year-old, he鈥檚 in year two and our daughter had just started pre-school at the primary school that she鈥檒l be going to in September.
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WhiteSo, how have you been managing?
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BapodraNot very well, if I鈥檓 honest.听 So, my son, before lockdown happened, we鈥檇 just been screened for dyslexia, our reading age is probably 鈥� we鈥檙e looking at late reception, I would say.听 So, he was already struggling and he was already behind.听 For the first two weeks of lockdown our school sent downloadable worksheets and before I go on 鈥� I absolutely feel like the school are doing their best with limited resources because there are lots of different apps.听 I鈥檝e gone on to dyslexia websites and they鈥檝e suggested apps but our problem is because my husband and I are both blind the initial setup of these things can be really inaccessible.听 I mean I鈥檝e just 鈥� I鈥檝e kind of been trying my best, I feel like I鈥檓 failing, if I鈥檓 honest.听 We鈥檝e been using 麻豆社 bitesize, we鈥檝e been playing the games but it鈥檚 really tricky, I feel like 鈥� lots of people have always said to me 鈥� oh, don鈥檛 you have a sighted person that can help you with that 鈥� yeah, because we really have a sighted person that keep in the cupboard for such things.听 It鈥檚 an expectation that you鈥檙e going to have sighted help on hand which we don鈥檛.
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WhiteGiven your situation did you consider maybe letting your son stay at school, given that they have remained open for children regarded as needing extra help?
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BapodraWe had talked about it.听 When lockdown happened, the message was very clear, if you can keep your children home, protect the NHS, keep your children home.
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WhiteI鈥檝e talked to some visually impaired teachers about this and some of them wondered if there was really that much academic work being done at school, particularly for age seven.听 I mean are you perhaps being a bit tough on yourself?
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BapodraPerhaps but I feel like my son鈥檚 quite a bright child and he needs something, he needs some stimulation.听 We all know the statistics that boys can be left behind, he鈥檚 already very far behind because of dyslexia 鈥� that鈥檚 not his fault, that鈥檚 not anybody鈥檚 fault 鈥� but as a parent I want to support him, I鈥檓 desperate to support him, not just in this situation but throughout his education and we have found, since he started school, and I guess since my daughter will start school, people expect that school have to make things accessible.听 But I don鈥檛 think they do and if I鈥檓 to support my children鈥檚 education I need some help with accessibility but I also need something to back me up with that and schools have a limited budget, they can鈥檛 be expected to cater to one parent if they don鈥檛 have to.
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WhiteWell, we鈥檙e also joined by Sean Randall, of the support group Blind Parents UK, to talk really about what you can expect.听 Sean also teaches visually impaired children at New College Worcester.听 So, Sean how common is Hetal鈥檚 situation?
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I think the two people we鈥檝e got today, Peter, are very sort of at either end of a very broad spectrum.听 Nick鈥檚 obviously 鈥� it鈥檚 working well for him and his family and Het鈥檚 struggling through no fault of any individual.听 But, yeah, I think a lot of people are struggling and as Nick said earlier, a lot of that is down to not having the resources, whereas what Hetal鈥檚 been offered in terms of getting sighted help is perhaps something that Nick鈥檚 managed to work around by using more technology, if that makes sense.
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WhiteWhat help does Hetal have a right to ask for?
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RandallYeah, well, state schools obviously have a duty of care for the children and they have the obligation to make reasonable adjustments.听 But as Het鈥檚 quite obviously spotted, limited budgets very much put a cap on what is a reasonable adjustment.听 The chances here are that the worksheets have been produced by a company who haven鈥檛 really thought about accessibility and made the effort and there鈥檚 a very high chance there will be similar resources tackling similar sort of work made by companies that have produced more accessible work, which would do the same sort of job for Het鈥檚 family.
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WhiteWould this be different in the child were visually impaired, as opposed to the parents?
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RandallAbsolutely, because the child would have an EHCP 鈥� an education healthcare plan 鈥� they would have paid staffing in terms of QTVIs or teaching assistants who were there to adapt classwork as and when.
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We don鈥檛 know how long this situation will carry on for, of course, I mean what needs to happen here to make it viable?
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RandallMy instinct is to say get the local authorities to step up a little bit, they鈥檙e all working from home already and the resources that Het鈥檚 family need to use are presumably already being used by visually impaired children.听 It鈥檚 all about communication and perhaps getting the school to talk to the local authority with their disability unit or team or whatever they have, so that they know which resources are usable and which aren鈥檛.
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WhiteHetal, a final word from you?
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BapodraI guess that I鈥檇 always been told that because my child wasn鈥檛 disabled there was no obligation for anything to be made accessible.听 Now, you know, my school have been really good in terms of when there are parents evening, when there鈥檚 school plays and things, I feel like we have a really good relationship with our school.听 And the problem is, Peter, I have never ever wanted to home school my children, a teacher I definitely am not and so I don鈥檛 know where to start.听 And I鈥檇 say like I鈥檓 quite technical but probably not as technical as Nick is and my husband鈥檚 the technical one but he鈥檚 having to work, we鈥檙e all sort of bumbling 鈥� bumbling along because my son can鈥檛 read me the things that he needs to read me, so that I can help him.
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WhiteAnd, as always, we鈥檇 like to know what other listeners are doing 鈥� problems and solutions please.听
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You certainly had plenty to say following our discussion last week about social distancing rules and their implications for us as a group.听
Martin Barber told us some of his worries:听
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I鈥檓 often unsure if I鈥檓 two metres from other people.听 Even taking a taxi, I sometimes need the driver鈥檚 help to get in and out.听 Blind people, living on their own, need the government to provide a special dispensation from physical distancing to allow them to take an elbow while travelling.听 We could be required to wear face coverings in these situations but if no provision is made, I don鈥檛 see how I鈥檒l be able to go anywhere in the foreseeable future.
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Tony Joyce is concerned about one group in particular.听 He works with people who have sight loss and learning difficulties.
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When we go out staff wear masks and gloves but our clients wouldn鈥檛 tolerate them.听 We take their arms but we don鈥檛 take them into any enclosed areas, apart from their own residence.听 Maybe more cognitively able blind people might wear masks and gloves.
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WhitePeople such as Olav Ernstzen perhaps, who thinks that maybe we鈥檙e worrying too much about this.
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I go out side for a walk almost every morning, including through the streets and a few times around a small local park.听 Everyone is friendly.听 I walk arm in arm with someone in my household and the risk outside is less as the air disperses breath.听 Follow the guidance but apply common sense.
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And Oriel Britton believes we may be worrying about the wrong thing.
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Social distancing and blindness can work fine together with good communication.听 I鈥檓 far more worried about the long-term economic and employment prospects for people with sight loss.听 Million of people throughout the world have had their life chances limited by the economic meltdown.听 It stands to reason that disabled people are going to be even more disadvantaged.听 If you thought blind people were at the back of the queue for a job before, there鈥檒l be at the back of a crowd now.
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Well thanks to all of those who responded.
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Someone who may not have to worry too much about a job in the future is 14-year-old Sirine Jahangir.听 This is part of her recent performance on ITV鈥檚 Britain鈥檚 Got Talent.听
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With a lot of her family watching, Sirine鈥檚 spot on the talent show caused something of an overnight sensation.听
Well, along with a proud father, she鈥檚 been explaining how it all came about.听
JahangirI鈥檝e been a fan of BGT ever since I was, I think, five, so I used to watch Britain鈥檚 Got Talent a lot with my brothers.听 And last year I went to see the actual live shows with my friend and you know I was absolutely inspired by the acts and how they were able to show people their passion and get appreciated for it.听 And I thought, why not, why don鈥檛 I try it.听 And my whole life my dad鈥檚 told me 鈥� always try new things.听 And like going from like learning braille to doing half the things that I do and Britain鈥檚 Got Talent was one of them and I took a shot at it and now I鈥檓 here and it鈥檚 crazy.
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WhiteIt鈥檚 a big deal, this show, I mean millions of people watching 鈥� were you nervous?
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JahangirOf course.听 You know, for the sighted people they could see that I was clearly extremely nervous, my hands were shaking, I didn鈥檛 know how I was playing the piano.听 My voice was shaking, I think, a lot, like especially before actually going on stage.听 I was talking to my dad and I was like 鈥� how am I going to do this.
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I honestly was so nervous because I鈥檝e done nothing 鈥� I鈥檝e never done anything like that, I鈥檝e only ever done school performances, I鈥檝e never sung on such a big stage and been on TV.听 And it was absolutely incredible.听
WhiteHow serious are you about singing?听 Is it a potential career maybe?
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JahangirOne hundred percent.听 Like I鈥檝e never taken music that seriously, I always wanted to become a dancer but when I lost my sight other things became harder, especially dancing, so, I pursued music and now I鈥檓 singing on BGT and I do say it鈥檚 incredible because it genuinely is to me.
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WhiteYou say you want to use your profile to raise awareness of visual impairment, what did you have in mind?
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JahangirYou know, on my Instagram I鈥檝e been getting a lot of messages from people who struggle with loss of sight and it really 鈥� it鈥檚 amazing to see that, you know, through my music and just through walking on stage being able to perform to people, I鈥檝e inspired people and I鈥檓 so, so grateful for the opportunity to do that.听 And I really hope, that in the future 鈥� I鈥檓 taking it step by step, so I don鈥檛 know what I鈥檓 going to do in five years, 10 years鈥� time but hopefully in the future I鈥檒l be able to inspire people through my music and just through doing what I do.
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WhiteLet鈥檚 just bring in your father, Kafeel.听 You were there, with the rest of the family, a lot of them anyway, how did it feel?
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Kafeel JahangirIt was a very proud moment for all of us, as you can see.听 I was nervous but in a way I wasn鈥檛 that nervous because to me it was just Sirine going out and performing, if she did well she did well, I wasn鈥檛 expecting her to do well, to be honest, I just thought鈥�
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JahangirYou didn鈥檛 know I could sing.
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Kafeel Jahangir
鈥� yeah, we didn鈥檛 really know that she could sing as well as that until the judges stood up 鈥� I just though, you know, it鈥檚 a pastime for her.听 But yeah, I mean it was just a proud moment.
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WhiteNow, it鈥檚 not the first time Sirine has featured on In Touch is it and these are happier circumstances, just explain.
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Kafeel Jahangir
Well I came on your show, I think it was 2016, so Sirine had just lost her vision at that time, she was applying for secondary school and we were in Westminster and I came on your show to highlight the fact that there was no facilities and it was very frustrating 鈥� Westminster were very lackadaisical in terms of trying to find her secondary schooling.听 And eventually, we moved to Barnet and Barnet Council were really helpful, they found her a school and you know she flourished in a mainstream school.听 She鈥檚 doing well at school and obviously she鈥檚 made friends and stuff, so it鈥檚 good.
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Do you fancy having a daughter who鈥檚 a singing star?
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Kafeel Jahangir
Well, you know what, I just want a daughter who鈥檚 happy and doing what she wants to do, just like everyone else would want that.听 The fact that she can鈥檛 see, you grow up worrying, you know, how will she end up, how will she cope but she kind of does her own thing.听 She鈥檚 done all this herself, so, that鈥檚 what makes us proud, the fact that she鈥檚 so resilient.
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Finally, back to Sirine 鈥� there鈥檚 a lot at stake isn鈥檛 there, I mean if you win anything could happen?
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Jahangir
Yeah, I know but you know a lot of people actually ask me 鈥� how will you feel if you win, what are you going to use the money to do.听 Honestly, I don鈥檛 really think about that sort of thing.听 The fact that I鈥檝e come this far, is already so crazy to me.听 In the first audition, we did not think I鈥檇 come this far at all.听 Literally, I went into the audition and my dad was 鈥� quickly go in and let鈥檚 go eat lunch.听 It was never serious, it was never serious.听 And if I were to win 鈥� oh my gosh that would be amazing 鈥� but the fact that I鈥檝e come this far is incredible to me already.
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Well, many thanks to both of you.听 And let鈥檚 hear a bit more of Sirine鈥檚 performance.
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And that鈥檚 it for today.听 You can email us at intouch@bbc.co.uk or you can go to our website, that鈥檚 bbc.co.uk/intouch from where you can download tonight鈥檚 and previous editions of the programme.听 From me, Peter White, producer Kev Core and studio manager Mark Ward, goodbye.
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